So can a mistress save a marriage?
Top Tories are still getting caught out with their mistresses. And even if their wives decide to stay with them, it's nonsense to say a mistress would ever improve a marriage.
As far as I'm concerned it would destroy it. If my husband Len ever cheated on me that would be it. I would never ever accept him back.
Len and I have been together for 28 years. It's a long time and he was my first and only steady boyfriend. He is my rock and I'd be devastated if he had an affair...I really would. And so would our 17- year-old daughter Danielle.
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Nothing can ever be the same again, whatever couples say later about forgiveness and reconciliation.
I think it's okay to have a little humorous flirt. But when it goes beyond that and a man thinks that maybe the grass is greener out there somewhere, the nightmare begins. And nine times out of 10 the man usually wants to come back anyway.
They've had their fling and think: "Right, been there, done that, I've read the book...now I'm going home."
But that bond of trust is broken forever. It will always be there simmering under the surface, forever poisoning the air.
Faith Brown - currently starring in Summer Holiday in Blackpool - was talking to Yvonne Swan.
YES
SAYS 'OTHER WOMAN' LADY BIENVENIDA BUCK
In my experience, a good affair can rejuvenate a bad marriage. People should stop and think before they condemn a man who takes a mistress.
You have to see an affair for what it is - a chance to flirt, have fun and sparkle.
When men or women are enjoying an affair, they are happier...and that happiness spreads all around them.
All the men I've had affairs with have treated their wives very well. They buy them expensive presents and take them to good restaurants. Sometimes, they organise luxury holidays for them, too.
Most men who are unfaithful worry about hurting their wives. But because an affair focuses their mind on the state of their marriage, they often come to realise how much they appreciate the woman they married.
When one or other of a couple start an affair, their ego is boosted. They lose weight and start wearing new clothes.
It can also make their sex lives more raunchy. Sleeping with a new person can open your eyes to new sexual positions or fantasies, which can be introduced into the marital bed.
I've always believed it is a shame to throw away years of marriage over an affair, which is usually just a bit of fun. I have never wanted to break up marriages.
The most important message I can pass on to any mistress is that she should never ask the man to leave his wife. If he does, he will leave his mistress too.
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Jumat, 09 April 2010
conditional sentences
Mom ignored bride's doubts
Dear Abby: My 27-year-old daughter, "Ruthie," was married a year ago. The night before her wedding, Ruthie came to me and said she didn't think she could go through with it. I told her she was "just a nervous bride," and that we had already paid for everything. Ruthie has always done what we wanted her to do and never gave us an ounce of trouble when she was growing up.
A few months after the wedding, I had a hunch that something was wrong. I asked Ruthie if I had told her it was OK to call off the wedding, would she have gotten married. With tears in her eyes, she told me, "No." The marriage is not going well at all. I know in my heart I let my daughter down. What should I do now? -- Sad Mom in Michigan
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Dear Sad Mom: Take your daughter by the hand, look her in the eye, and tell her that mothers sometimes make mistakes -- and this was one of them. Then let her know that you'll support her in whatever she wants to do.
Suggest that she consult a lawyer. She may qualify for an annulment.
Dear Abby: I am a 35-year-old woman with two kids. I have been about 80 pounds overweight for the last 10 years. My mom drives me crazy because all she talks about is my weight. Yesterday she said, "If someone gave you $10,000 to lose 50 pounds, would you do it?"
Mother's remarks have strained our relationship. I can't stand being around her. Should I put my foot down or just drop it? -- Tipping the Scales in Texas
Dear Tipping the Scales: Your mother harps on your weight because she is concerned about your health. The next time she brings up the subject, say, "I know you're worried about my weight because you love me. But this is a battle I must fight myself. No one can do this for me. I will deal with this issue when I am ready." If she continues to raise the subject, repeat your statement. It's the truth.
Dear Abby: I'd like to respond to "Unhappy East Coast Wife," who is considering leaving her current husband for her high school sweetheart.
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qn4188/is_20030901/ai_n11414750/?tag=rbxcra.2.a.22
Dear Abby: My 27-year-old daughter, "Ruthie," was married a year ago. The night before her wedding, Ruthie came to me and said she didn't think she could go through with it. I told her she was "just a nervous bride," and that we had already paid for everything. Ruthie has always done what we wanted her to do and never gave us an ounce of trouble when she was growing up.
A few months after the wedding, I had a hunch that something was wrong. I asked Ruthie if I had told her it was OK to call off the wedding, would she have gotten married. With tears in her eyes, she told me, "No." The marriage is not going well at all. I know in my heart I let my daughter down. What should I do now? -- Sad Mom in Michigan
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Dear Sad Mom: Take your daughter by the hand, look her in the eye, and tell her that mothers sometimes make mistakes -- and this was one of them. Then let her know that you'll support her in whatever she wants to do.
Suggest that she consult a lawyer. She may qualify for an annulment.
Dear Abby: I am a 35-year-old woman with two kids. I have been about 80 pounds overweight for the last 10 years. My mom drives me crazy because all she talks about is my weight. Yesterday she said, "If someone gave you $10,000 to lose 50 pounds, would you do it?"
Mother's remarks have strained our relationship. I can't stand being around her. Should I put my foot down or just drop it? -- Tipping the Scales in Texas
Dear Tipping the Scales: Your mother harps on your weight because she is concerned about your health. The next time she brings up the subject, say, "I know you're worried about my weight because you love me. But this is a battle I must fight myself. No one can do this for me. I will deal with this issue when I am ready." If she continues to raise the subject, repeat your statement. It's the truth.
Dear Abby: I'd like to respond to "Unhappy East Coast Wife," who is considering leaving her current husband for her high school sweetheart.
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qn4188/is_20030901/ai_n11414750/?tag=rbxcra.2.a.22
Adjective Clause
Mention the names of New England's private schools and a large number of Americans will recognize them. Recent news articles, for example, note that both John E Kennedy Jr. and presidential hopeful George W Bush attended Phillips Academy in Massachusetts. Schools such as Phillips and Exeter have educated the children of generations of America's first families.
Less well known, however, are AfricanAmerican private schools, often designated as academies, whose existence has been virtually ignored.
Prior to 1920, over 200 AfricanAmerican academies operated in the South, and black children depended on them for a high school education. Secondary schools in the South during this time were few and far between, and the few that existed were in the major cities.
In 1916, for example, four southern states did not have a single public high school for blacks, and half of all black students at the secondary level were enrolled in private academies. Georgia had one public black high school but closed it to direct funds to the education of white children. A court battle ensued and Georgia was forced to reopen the black school.
The alarming lack of public secondary education provided for black students reflected the prevailing philosophy in the South, which did not make public education - indeed, any education - a high political and social item for African Americans.
In the midst of this educational failure and because of the insatiable desire for an education, blacks found ways to establish their own schools. They were aided in their quest by religious groups and by philanthropists. John D. Rockefeller, Andrew Carnegie, and Julius Rosenwald gave generous amounts of money to build schools in black communities, to improve instruction, and to establish libraries. These philanthropists often directed that their largesse should fund "industrial education" favored by Booker T. Washington, who had counseled blacks against pressing for social equality and urged them to train themselves as useful workers for the southern economy.
Less well known, however, are AfricanAmerican private schools, often designated as academies, whose existence has been virtually ignored.
Prior to 1920, over 200 AfricanAmerican academies operated in the South, and black children depended on them for a high school education. Secondary schools in the South during this time were few and far between, and the few that existed were in the major cities.
In 1916, for example, four southern states did not have a single public high school for blacks, and half of all black students at the secondary level were enrolled in private academies. Georgia had one public black high school but closed it to direct funds to the education of white children. A court battle ensued and Georgia was forced to reopen the black school.
The alarming lack of public secondary education provided for black students reflected the prevailing philosophy in the South, which did not make public education - indeed, any education - a high political and social item for African Americans.
In the midst of this educational failure and because of the insatiable desire for an education, blacks found ways to establish their own schools. They were aided in their quest by religious groups and by philanthropists. John D. Rockefeller, Andrew Carnegie, and Julius Rosenwald gave generous amounts of money to build schools in black communities, to improve instruction, and to establish libraries. These philanthropists often directed that their largesse should fund "industrial education" favored by Booker T. Washington, who had counseled blacks against pressing for social equality and urged them to train themselves as useful workers for the southern economy.
Tugas softskill part 04
"I am walk to work this week. ( Present Tense )
" My mother-in-law is Staying at our house this week.( Present Continous Tense )
They'Ve gone to a rock concert. ( Present Perfect Tense )
I Went to the mall after school.( Past Tense )
" I was Watching Tv " ( Past Continous Tense )
" You Had Stopped Before me " ( Past Perfect Tense )
" It had not been working well." (past perfect continous tense )
" My mother-in-law is Staying at our house this week.( Present Continous Tense )
They'Ve gone to a rock concert. ( Present Perfect Tense )
I Went to the mall after school.( Past Tense )
" I was Watching Tv " ( Past Continous Tense )
" You Had Stopped Before me " ( Past Perfect Tense )
" It had not been working well." (past perfect continous tense )
Kalimat Passive
'I do wish,' said the Hon Jacob Rees-Mogg in slightly peevish tones, 'you wouldn't keep going on about my nanny.' The 30-year-old prospective parliamentary candidate for the Wrekin in Shropshire, son of former Times editor Lord Rees-Mogg, rearranged his Flat Stanley form under the table at Claridges.I had a valet you'd think it was perfectly normal. Well,' he concedes, catching my eye, 'perhaps not.' Until two years ago, Rees-Mogg employed a maid called Eleanor. Then - rather thoughtlessly - she went off and got married. Now the fund manager has to make do with his nanny, Veronica Crook, who famously canvassed for him when he stood as Tory candidate for the depressed constituency of Central Fife.
On one magnificent occasion two summers ago, both maid and nanny were to be found tending to their charge in the bucolic glory of Glyndebourne, where they took turns holding an open book over Rees-Mogg's thin and pale neck to prevent it getting burned as he entertained a party of guests to a picnic.
Was this really true? 'Oh, every bit of it. I hate sitting in the sun,' he says. 'So I complained to Nanny and she rellied round!' The eccentric Rees-Mogg may, I suspect, be the last young British male to live as though he is in the 19th century.
Asked what his maid did, Rees-Mogg exclaims in his dizzy upper-crust drawl: 'Well, everything! Cook! Make my breakfast! Take care of my clothes.
All the sort of things which somebody has to do!' Most people managed these chores themselves, I observe. He considers this briefly. 'Well, more fool them!' So how did he manage without the maid? Did he make his own toast? 'I don't eat toast,' he reports. 'And I'm out a lot, and if I'm in I just have cheese and biscuits. I never have a hot meal if I have to make it for myself.
In fact, my oven's been disconnected for the past three months. I think it's frightfully funny. I think my younger sister, who lives with me, finds it a bit trying.' What about his clothes?
On one magnificent occasion two summers ago, both maid and nanny were to be found tending to their charge in the bucolic glory of Glyndebourne, where they took turns holding an open book over Rees-Mogg's thin and pale neck to prevent it getting burned as he entertained a party of guests to a picnic.
Was this really true? 'Oh, every bit of it. I hate sitting in the sun,' he says. 'So I complained to Nanny and she rellied round!' The eccentric Rees-Mogg may, I suspect, be the last young British male to live as though he is in the 19th century.
Asked what his maid did, Rees-Mogg exclaims in his dizzy upper-crust drawl: 'Well, everything! Cook! Make my breakfast! Take care of my clothes.
All the sort of things which somebody has to do!' Most people managed these chores themselves, I observe. He considers this briefly. 'Well, more fool them!' So how did he manage without the maid? Did he make his own toast? 'I don't eat toast,' he reports. 'And I'm out a lot, and if I'm in I just have cheese and biscuits. I never have a hot meal if I have to make it for myself.
In fact, my oven's been disconnected for the past three months. I think it's frightfully funny. I think my younger sister, who lives with me, finds it a bit trying.' What about his clothes?
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Full Name : Fitria
Date of Birth : July 04nd, 1988
Place of Birth : Karawang
Age : 21 years old
Nationality : Indonesian
Address : jl. Pinang 03 No. 13 Margonda, Depok.
Phone : 085695103243
Marital Status : Single
Religion : Moeslem
Education FORMAL 2006
-Until now : University of Gunadarma Mangement of Economic
2004 - 2006 : SMA Negeri 5 Karawang
2002 - 2004 : Mts Assalam Purwakarta
1996 - 2002 : SDN Kertarahayu III
Non Formal
* Market Capital course at University of Gunadarma
Date of Birth : July 04nd, 1988
Place of Birth : Karawang
Age : 21 years old
Nationality : Indonesian
Address : jl. Pinang 03 No. 13 Margonda, Depok.
Phone : 085695103243
Marital Status : Single
Religion : Moeslem
Education FORMAL 2006
-Until now : University of Gunadarma Mangement of Economic
2004 - 2006 : SMA Negeri 5 Karawang
2002 - 2004 : Mts Assalam Purwakarta
1996 - 2002 : SDN Kertarahayu III
Non Formal
* Market Capital course at University of Gunadarma
Artikel mengandung " If Clause "
“If you believe in yourself and you know It’s what you want, you’ll stick it out, understand, though. That it won’t come over night. It takes 10-15 years of hard works. It can be a lonely road. But you have to try to surround yourself with positive people, people who will get behind you in your efforts. If you want it enough, no one will deter you”.
By : Roland Kickinger
By : Roland Kickinger
too much love will kill you
You make, my mess. You make me, I do not believe. You make me, I was helpless. You rejected me, ignore me. How, how, to destroy, your hard heart. I realized I was not perfect, I do not like, what you want. You crush me with your attitude, not realizing that you've hurt me. Tired of this heart to assure you, this love, kill me.
By : D' Massive
By : D' Massive
Semoga
SEMOGA AKU MENJADI WANITA SUKSES DENGAN HARTA BANYAK, SUAMI KAYA, CAKEP SERTA TAAT AGAMA, SAYANG PADA KU, SERTA KELUARGA KU, PUNYA ANK YANG CANTIK ATAU GANTENG, SOLEH DAN SOLEHAH
DAN MATI PUN MASUK SURGA.. AMIN
SEMOGAAAAAAAA
DAN MATI PUN MASUK SURGA.. AMIN
SEMOGAAAAAAAA
Tulus
kasih sayang mu ibu kepada ku begitu Tulus, begitu murni
engkau tulus merawat ku, hinnga aku dewasa kini.
Tulus pengorbanan mu tak akan lekang oleh jaman
engkau tulus merawat ku, hinnga aku dewasa kini.
Tulus pengorbanan mu tak akan lekang oleh jaman
Doa
Doa...
doa qu selalu ku panjatkan untuk keluarga ku di Rumah
Ayah, Ibu kaka-kaka ku... mereka lah darah ku, tumpuan hidup ku.
aqu selalu berdoa semoga mereka diberi kesehatan, rizki yang melimpah, jauh dari kedzoliman,
hanya untuk keluarga qu yang nun jauh disana...
Luph my Famz
doa qu selalu ku panjatkan untuk keluarga ku di Rumah
Ayah, Ibu kaka-kaka ku... mereka lah darah ku, tumpuan hidup ku.
aqu selalu berdoa semoga mereka diberi kesehatan, rizki yang melimpah, jauh dari kedzoliman,
hanya untuk keluarga qu yang nun jauh disana...
Luph my Famz
Hasrat
Hasrat yang begitu menggebu ketika ku melihat wajah tampan mu, serasa qu ingin memiliki mu.
wahai pujaan hati qu, kau lah pemilik hati ini.
wahai pujaan hati qu, kau lah pemilik hati ini.
Asa
Asa...
asa qu kini telah hilang untuk menggapai cinta mu kembali.
karna luka yang kau goreskan begitu menusuk qu..
pada akhirnya pun aku putus asa untuk mengenal cinta kembali
asa qu kini telah hilang untuk menggapai cinta mu kembali.
karna luka yang kau goreskan begitu menusuk qu..
pada akhirnya pun aku putus asa untuk mengenal cinta kembali
Syukur
Ketika Nabi Sulaiman a.s. mendapatkan puncak kenikmatan dunia, beliau berkata,“Ini adalah bagian dari karunia Allah, untuk mengujiku apakah aku bersyukur atau kufur.” (An-Naml: 40). Ketika Qarun mendapatkan harta yang sangat banyak, dia mengatakan, “Sesungguhnya harta kekayaan ini, tidak lain kecuali dari hasil kehebatan ilmuku.” (Al-Qashash: 78).
Dua kisah yang bertolak belakang di atas menghasilkan akhir kesudahan yang berbeda. Nabi Sulaiman a.s. mendapatkan karunia di dunia dan akhirat. Sedangkan Qarun mendapat adzab di dunia dan akhirat karena kekufurannya akan nikmat Allah.
Demikianlah, fragmen hidup manusia tidak terlepas dari dua golongan tersebut. Golongan pertama, manusia yang mendapatkan nikmat Allah dan mereka mensyukurinya dengan sepenuh hati. Dan golongan kedua, manusia yang mendapatkan banyak nikmat lalu mereka kufur. Golongan pertama yaitu para nabi, shidiqqin, zullada, dan shalihin (An-Nisa’: 69-70). Golongan kedua, mereka inilah para penentang kebenaran, seperti Namrud, Fir’aun, Qarun, Abu Lahab, Abu Jahal, dan para pengikut mereka dari masa ke masa.
Secara umum bahwa kesejahteraan, kedamaian dan keberkahan merupakan hasil dari syukur kepada Allah sedangkan kesempitan, kegersangan dan kemiskinan akibat dari kufur kepada Allah. (An-Nahl 112)
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